Looking for ways to improve your self care? These self care blog posts have been written to give you ideas. In the blog posts, I explore different therapies and give ideas about how you can help yourself. If you have any questions after reading the posts, do get in touch
It all starts with one step
It's the beginning of January and I need another new therapist to add to my personal well-being kit. Pre-Covid, I had regular therapies several times a month. Unfortunately, during the pandemic I saw many decide things were too difficult to continue. Last year I was...
When its the right time for you
When people recommend a therapist to you, it's easy to think it's a good idea but then let things fall by the wayside. You may go for a therapy, love it and think you'll rebook but then life starts to get in the way. I see many people who try to explain why they...
What can a complementary therapy do?
When you start to look at the world of complementary therapies, it is easy to become overwhelmed by the choice. If you are living with a particular ailment, you may be looking for a therapy which can help give you some respite. It is worth chatting to people....
The Rise of the Relaxation Massage
Historically, I'm aware that the majority of my massage appointments have requested a deeper pressure. People want to feel they've 'had a massage', but recently, I've noticed a change. I'm seeing more people through my door asking for a relaxation massage. Previously,...
Therapies and Medical Conditions
When you go for your first therapy you'll be asked to complete a consultation form which will ask about medical conditions and medication. In the past, I have had occasions where people haven't revealed the whole story. This may be because they didn't think it...
Therapies and Coronavirus
Over the past year we've all been made completely aware of a little thing called a pandemic! Each time therapists have returned to their clinics, we have had to ensure we are being as safe as we can. This has involved a risk assessment of our environment and also what...
Diversity
Diversity has become a bit of a buzz word. Personally, I think this is a good thing but I do wonder if, as a society, we embrace all diversity. At my clinic, I aim to encourage diversity and welcome it in all its forms. So, how do I try to promote diversity? At...
Our new normal
If you've been considering a therapy, it can be a bit of a scary idea given our current global situation. Look for a therapist who is part of a membership body, as the therapist will be taking guidance from them. During this time, membership bodies have been advising...
Here come the men!
I've been in business over 10 years and I've noticed a change...And it's a good change! Over the years I've seen a few male clients, but I've noticed in the last few years there's been an increase in the number of men making enquiries and booking a therapy. As a Mum...
Why would you book a pamper?
If you don't have therapies, you may think that booking an appointment is a pamper, something you have when you go to a spa to make you feel nice. I'll be honest, before I trained as a therapist I thought exactly the same. I couldn't justify the expense and I remember...
Is half an hour enough for a therapy?
Half hour appointments. Are they worth it? Can you really do much in that time? A shorter therapy session can sometimes be useful. In some situations a half hour appointment can actually be a better choice than choosing an hour. If you've never had a therapy before...
Why I love the solar plexus point
In recent years I've begun to have much more of a respect for the reflex point solar plexus. When I first qualified, I'll be honest, I only knew about the energetic side. I believed it was an area which was part of the meridian system, a chakra, and not a physical...
Good hygiene practices
With the possibility of an epidemic, I'm seeing many people who are fearful of the coronavirus. As a business, I've already had to look at hygiene practices and, unsurprisingly, with the advent of this outbreak I'm not needing to make any changes. During our therapy...
Little and Often
Well, it's the start of a new decade! Many of you may be thinking of making changes, especially after the Christmas festivities, but remember, it doesn't have to all start 1st January and be all or nothing. As we get older, our bodies become a little less...
Dealing with December
We're into December again, and even though the whole year has been busy and we're not sure where the year has gone, we know it's now going to step up a pace. During this time it's really important to factor yourself into the equation. Do you need to spend all that...
What to Do if You’re Not Happy with Your Therapy Session
You've booked in for a therapy session and something is wrong. What do you do when you're not happy with a therapy session? Well, it depends on the situation and what the issue is. In most situations communication is going to help you resolve your problem. Before each...
Why book to see an holistic therapist?
If you've never been to see an holistic therapist, you may be wondering why you would want to book. They can seem expensive, with no indication of what they may help, and with no guarantees to their efficacy. What's in a name? An holistic therapist is someone who...
New Year, New You?
It's January again, and that time of year when we get bombarded with messages of hope, aspirations and aims that we should aspire to for the next coming 12 months. Usually, after the Christmas deluge of overindulging, there are...
What does self-care look like?
So, as we're approaching the end of the year I hear a lot of people commenting on how their lives are getting a bit crazy as they try to fit everything in. Self-care is a bit of a buzz phrase at the moment, but it's because it is important, especially when things...
Why have regular therapies?
Are you someone who has trouble understanding why someone would pay so much for a therapy? Do you consider it a luxury or a pamper? If so, then you may not understand why people would book to have regular therapies. Years ago, I'll admit I fell into the camp where I...
Therapies and Pregnancy
Occasionally I'm asked if I offer therapies to pregnant women. I don't advertise it on my website, and perhaps I should, but it's because I don't consider it a special skill and I don't consider a therapy for a pregnant woman as something that needs highlighting. As...
Why Book a Reiki Session?
You may already know a little bit about Reiki, you may have had a taster session, or you may have read previous blog posts about Reiki and felt drawn towards trying it. If you've never heard of Reiki, you may want to read my blog post, What is Reiki? which explains...
Getting the Most out of your Therapy
With holistic therapies it is possible for your session to be tailored to you, so, how do you get the most out of your therapy session? Before the hands-on part of your therapy begins, you'll find that your therapist has a little chat with you. Apart from letting you...
Suggestions for a Good Nights Sleep
It happens to everyone from time to time and it’s quite usual, but if you find you’re struggling with getting to sleep or staying asleep, then it may be worth reviewing what is going on. Recent research is showing the importance of sleep, and how it is used by the...
Take it easy on yourself
So, once again we're at the start of the year. Every year many of us make plans, set goals and set off full steam ahead. For some it's business plans, others health aims, personal challenges; the list can be endless as we try to make our lives perfect. But what if we...
Can I mix my therapies?
As an holistic therapist I have a toolkit of therapies I offer, as I'm aware not everyone likes the same thing. Regardless of your therapy, I'll have a little chat with you before the session, and it's then you can tell me what you think you may want. If you're having...
How to choose your therapy
Chances are, if you've made it to a complementary therapy website you have an idea about what you're looking for. Someone may have told you they've found something that was fantastic for sorting out their ache, someone else may have found a particular therapy really...
My extreme self care
Every year, about this time, I begin to feel exhausted and that I need a break, but I'm aware I have too much to do. With my workload, my family and the increase of pressures such as organising Christmas for home and a business, it can begin to feel a little...
Why do I need a consultation?
When you book your first appointment for an holistic therapy, you'll be advised we need to allow time for a consultation. It may seem a little excessive if you're booking for a bit of relaxation, but it's actually really important. A consultation allows you time to...
From Hating Massage to Loving It
This is a repost of a blog I posted in 2016 on my other website OK, I have a confession to make. I hated the first massage I ever had. I couldn't work out why people paid for these things and did it regularly. I led there wondering how long it would be, thoughts...
How often should I have a therapy?
Some people who visit me are worried about the level of commitment needed with therapies. They think they're going to be visiting weekly, it will cost a fortune and they don't know if it's going to help. It's important to remember your therapist is a facilitator and...
Managing Stress
What is stress? We've all heard the word 'stress' and a lot of people use it in everyday vocabulary. Some people think they're not stressed but are used to hiding it, while others frequently feel high levels of stress and are aware of it. Stress can show in many...
How to get your first therapy session ‘right’
If you've never been for a therapy session you may be wondering what on earth you do. You're going to go and spend some time with a person you've never met before, tell them your health history and then get the therapy you fancied when you had a look at what was on...
How Would You Invest £1million?
You've received £1 million, how would you invest it? Would you look on the internet and invest all of it based on what you find? Would you invest 50% on something you find on the internet,10%, or you would invest 0% and book an appointment with an investment...
Men Need Therapies Too
As a massage therapist I've heard of many therapists who won't treat men, or who have decided to give up the profession completely because of the lewd texts and calls that can be received. I do treat men. I work with the men who have back problems, I see men who want...
Why I Meditate
A few years ago I signed up to a 21 day meditation course, I tried to make 20minutes a day but it didn't really go too well. I had distractions, the playback was only available for up to five days and I fell behind. So, I tried again. I found the next time a little...
Offering several therapies
People sometimes look at my business card and say 'Ooh, you do a lot of things, don't you?' The truth is, I don't. It's just when they're all listed out like that it can seem a lot. My business is all holistic, I'm not a beauty therapist and I have no desire to be....
Massage when you Feel Body Conscious
I get a few people who come to me for a different therapy because they feel body conscious. They know a massage is probably going to help them the best, but they're not ready to get stripped off in front of a stranger and flaunt it all. Here's the thing - You...
What is reiki?
Reiki is pronounced as ray-kee, and began as a Japanese self-healing technique. Over the years it has developed into an energy therapy, which some people think is amazing and others consider as rubbish. During a reiki session you lie fully clothed on a couch or sit in...
Falling off the Resolution Bandwagon
This is the repost of my blog post from January 2015, in case you fall off the resolution bandwagon. Once again we're finding ourselves at the beginning of January with hope for another year. Have you made any resolutions? Have you already broken them and beaten...